Friday, September 30, 2011

One word: Seminary

I LOVE TEACHING SEMINARY! I really do. Some people think I am nuts. ( I am, but that is not why)!
It is the best calling in the whole church! Who doesn't love spending time with our awesome youth and feeling of their spirits every morning? They are incredible.

I love learning with them and watching them grow spiritually. There is almost nothing in this world like it!

But as a consequence, I don't get too many other things accomplished! I get engrossed in the planning of lessons and activities and reading for fun or perusing the internet to stalk blogs or write on my own doesn't really happen. So when I don't get much done, there is only one word: Seminary!

Oh well. Life is good ! I will keep setting my alarm and crawling out of bed to get dressed up to hurry off to the church to greet my cute little students!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

All the way to Georgia

I did not expect that what started out as a vacation and visit to see Lauren would turn out to be one of the best things that has happened to me in a while!

It was such a great time for all of us! Lauren has a beautiful place to call "home" (for now) and she has a lot of fun stuff to do close by! We shopped and ate and toured and laughed and cried and did a 1000 piece puzzle all in 3 days. It was so much fun! I absolutely loved all the green scenery. I think I could get used to that!!!

On Saturday, Laurens ward had a Pioneer Day Celebration, so we decided to go and see where she went to church and meet some of the people in her ward. I cannot tell you how thankful I am that we went, because we debated the issue!

Collette, a lady who is in the R.S Presidency,came and introduced herself to us... and at that moment only Colin and I were left at the table. We talked about her kids and my kids and what they were all doing. She said that she thought Columbus, GA was "hickish" which cracked us up. Colin was very attentive to her. She told us that she was ready to move to AZ to be near her kids. Then she was the answer to a prayer that I have prayed a very long time for. She said... "you know, as long as you are doing what you should, the Lord blesses you. There have been many times in our lives where we didn't know how we were going to sell that house, or make that move, but the Lord provided." She continued on with things like "the Lord is so mindful of us and has the big picture if we would just let him help us and let him make us into the people that he wants us to be"!

I am pretty sure that my mouth was hanging on the ground and my eyes looked like a deer in the headlights. I could not believe what I was hearing. Colin had every attentive bone in his body at attention!!!

I cannot express to you my happiness and my gratitude to her. Proof that "The Lord does hear and answer our prayers, but it is usually through another person that our needs are met".

We left the building a few minutes later. Colin said, "She was so nice". Little does he know how very nice she actually was. She was my angel. Answering my prayer.

I had to go all the way to Georgia to have a prayer answered, but I would fly to the moon if I had to!

Thank you Collette...

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Leave it to him...

Man, you gotta love my husband!

I have been feeling like poo lately with a stomach ache to top all stomach aches AND a tired body that doesn't want to be vertical for very long or it starts complaining.

AND I look like poo. You know how it is when you don't feel "right"? You also don't look "right"!!

So today my cute hubby came and sat by me at some point during my migration from couch to couch and said "man, you look so cute today"! What? Me?

Leave it to him to make me feel so good about myself when I don't feel good at all!

Thanks, hon! You made my day. Now, back to the couch.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

To my husband, who is also a Dad, on Father's Day

His name? Leon. His game? DAD! Of course, he has many games, but the one he gets noticed for today is father of our children!

Leon has been such a great provider for our family. I never have needed to worry about whether or not we were going to have enough money to pay for the necessities of life, while I got to stay home and take care of our kids.

He is well known around here for his analogies. He has taught our children to look for those in life! (Sometimes they laugh at him because sometimes they don't exactly fit, but it's the thought that counts!!!) He has taught them to be wise with their money. He has taught them how to work. He has taught them how to communicate effectively. He is a coach for job success and resume building. He has been there when they needed him.

I am so thankful for him and for the Dad that he has been to our kids. I appreciate and value his efforts and will always be grateful for what he has done for our family!

Thank you Leon! I love you so much and know that our children love you too!!

A thing or two I learned from my Dad

My Dad taught me some things... He taught me to respect my elders. He taught me to have manners. He taught me that idleness was not acceptable. He taught me that cleanliness is next to Godliness (I hope he doesn't come over very soon!!!) He taught me that reading is a great way to have adventures while never having to leave your house. He taught me how to put on panty hose correctly. (Are they still called that? Do women even wear them anymore??) I will explain...My Dad was a truck driver and in order to stay warm (I am letting out some top-secret info here!) they wear panty hose under their pants!!! Don't tell anyone this secret came from me!! And I think one of the most important things that my Dad taught me was to never talk bad about anyone. I never heard him say a bad word about anybody while growing up. I have to say, and not with pride, that I have not been a very good example of that for my own children...but I am trying to do better!!
He provided for 7 children and worked hard to make sure that we had a roof over our heads and shoes on our feet!!
Happy Father's Day, Andrew Daniel Rhode King McInnes, because your Mom thought you would be the last child and so she gave you all the names!!!
I love you! And thank you for all that you have done for me!

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Lucy and I

I scored myself a pretty sweet little job. And it is sweet in more ways than one. I only work 2 days a week, Tues and Fri. each day for 2 hours!!

I work for an OLDer lady named Lucy, she won't disclose her age but says she is an octogenarian, so, somewhere in her 80's. If I were to guess I would say 85 or so. And she is a real sweetie!

Lucy is very well known in this community. She is a concert pianist, specializing in Chopin. She and her husband organized the Chopin festivals here for many years. She still gives concerts all over the city. Her sweet companion passed away 3 years ago and I have the privilege of hearing all about their relationship and what a "saint" he was.

Normally, I clean for her. Light cleaning. But Friday was not an ordinary day for Lucy and I. When I arrived at 9 a.m. she was dressed and ready to go. We went grocery shopping and gassed up her car. (I even have my own key to her car, she showed me where it is stored). I didn't have time to do anything with her house that day except run a quick vacuum over her most used room. She was most happy that I went with her to the store. I have a feeling it will become a regular activity for us.

While we were at the grocery store, the man in the produce aisle was very helpful to us and very friendly. She commented as we walked away from him how he was a nice guy!

At the gas station, a man who was gassing up next to us was chatting with me. I got back in the car and Lucy said "flirting with the men I see". I was a little mortified at first, and then I giggled. I told her about how Leon calls me the "giant ear" because everyone talks to me. I talk to everyone, too! I like people.

She made me sad when she replied that no one talks to her. It reminded me that today our society suffers with a real problem...ageism. We do not respect the elderly anymore. They are thought of as burdensome, a drag on our system, a menace on our roads, a life already lived. What we tend to forget is that they have had years of experiences that have shaped their characters, no matter how that character happens to be. They are wise . I am sure that they look at the younger generation and sometimes cringe. How things have changed.

Next week she wants me to drive her car to the East side for service. I have a feeling that her house isn't going to get much of a cleaning!

I am enjoying Lucy and our time together! She plays the piano while I am there and I love to work while doubling as her audience!

Sweet, don't ya think?

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

A hole in my heart...

I am not usually so dramatic but this truly expresses the way that I felt yesterday as I watched my little family of Lauren, Derek and Titan drive away. I could hardly stand to watch as they honked and waved good-bye. My heart hurt. Physically it hurt. It felt heavy. And now, there is a hole.

I am going to miss them so very much. I am so grateful for the time that they lived here and we were able to spend lots of time together. I am so thankful for the wonderful parents that Lauren and Derek are to baby Titan. I am so in love with that little boy. Well, I am in love with all of them, but there is something about that little guy that I can't resist! He knows how to brighten the day! He laughs and makes funny faces and makes me turn on Sesame Street. I am really going to miss him.

Being positive, (something I am trying HARD to do!!) I am excited for their adventures and for the new life that they are beginning. I am happy that they get to have experiences to help them grow. They get to see new and wonderful places and meet new and wonderful people!

So, I am going to patch up the hole in my heart with memories!! AND with the fact that I am going to visit in July!! (I hope that I remember to come home!!!)

I am so thankful for a loving and close family! I am so blessed.