She was my angel, soulmate, best friend, partner in crime, listening ear, soft spot to land, woman. She is my Mom!
On August 20th, 2022 we lost her. And although she was 90 years old she was still active and spry and fun…which made the loss cut even deeper.
In August of 2021 she had a lump grow on her head. We had it immediately seen to and it was removed along with a node near her ear. The dermatologist assured us that the borders were clear and they got all the cancer that they found.
In April of 2022 she had another lump appear on her head. And she has started feeling bad, having horrible hot flashes and feeling weak after they passed. Her head would hurt and her breathing became slightly labored.
After a couple of months Melissa took her to the dermatologist ( a new one) and he removed it. On July 18 Mom was diagnosed with metastatic melanoma. The doctor told her she had only “months” to live. ðŸ˜
That day a part of me died. I could not believe that soon my Mom would be gone and I would have to try and figure out how to go on without one of my best friends and favorite pal.
I left for Albuquerque 2 days later. I was blessed to be able to spend the last month of her life with her, along with a rotating group of siblings.
She passed peacefully with some of us holding her hand and that was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.
I miss her so much. So very much. Words cannot express the deep ache that I have in my heart.
Mom was one in a million. I have learned at her feet so many wonderful ways to live. I am far from perfect but I am trying.
I am so grateful that I had her by my side. She was my pillar, my rock, my guide, my guard, my teacher, my friend. And now, my Angel.
Mom, I love you and miss you so much. Until we meet again, I will hold you in my heart and treasure the life we had together. ❤️
